What or whom is holding you back in your life?
Who and what is draining your energy?
What are you resisting and not accepting what needs to change?
Why are you hanging on to what or who no longer resonates with you?
These are just a few of the questions you can ask yourself about what you are resisting letting go of and why. We often fear letting go of what or who is ‘insulting our soul’ and causing blocks, and a feeling of being held back, because there is a part of us that is apprehensive of letting go and leaping into the unknown.
If you are in a relationship that constantly feels like you are being held back from ‘growing’ you have to be very tough with yourself and ‘let go’. This can be very difficult, especially if it is your partner whom you love, or a family member, but it is not healthy to stay in a relationship that doesn’t allow you to move, grow, change and be you.
If you are trying to let go of self-sabotaging thoughts such as doubts, fear, worry, and frustration ask yourself what are you resisting within yourself, what are you not facing that needs healing within yourself? As you begin to do the inner healing work you will then start to see your outside world begin to change too, because as you do, your perspective, your ideals, beliefs, what you want and don’t want will begin to change too. This is also when relationships can change, and when you start to see exactly who and what has been holding you back from being you and ‘growing’.
Love and Blessings,